Friday, December 19, 2008

Santa by the Sonoran Express


He arrived by train yesterday afternoon aboard the Sonoran Express #2349 at the Union Pacific yard office in Tucson, Arizona at precisely 5:00 in the afternoon.


He greeted old and young with that magical way about him. "Merry Christmas!" His eyes twinkled with genuine delight.


He gave packages and listened intently to yearnings and wishes of all sorts. "I want a Wii." "I want my brother to stop teasing me." "I would like to have a nice day with my family on Christmas."


"Always be happy," he urged. A familiar line to me.



Some brought him letters.


Some stared intently at his jolly face.


He hugged each child and said, "Leave me a note and I'll come see you!"


Before leaving his lap, I made sure they each smiled for a picture... or at least looked my way!


Some tried to imitate him. (I don't think the little guy's beard is real!)



Ho, ho, ho!
Dawn

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Kelly Skovholt & Vera Bradley


Now I understand my sister's purse fetish. I've never been as proud of a purse as I am with my new Vera Bradley bag given to me by my long-time, dear friend, Kelly Jane (Lawhead) Skovholt. I totally feel flirty at thirty with this darling bag on my shoulder. I'm so careful with it and refuse to put any used Kleenex or crumpled straw wrappers in it as I would with my other purses. I strive to keep it organized, which is a huge help, actually! I am enjoying my adorable purse very, very much.


Here's Kelly and her husband, Jonathan! See, Kelly's sporting her Vera Bradley purse, naturally doused with hints of purple (her favorite color). When Kurt and I went to D.C. to visit, it was so cute how she and her friends all had Vera Bradley purses. I love that I now fit in with that east coast trend! Thank you, Kelly, for your thoughtful gift! I love it!

Kelly and I met in the 4th grade. Our teacher, Mrs. Moore, coupled us together to make up an assignment that we both missed. We sat behind a bookshelf and became fast friends as we giggled and bonded in our little private book-fort while the rest of the class worked on something else, and I imagine they were envious of the fun we were obviously having. I think it was the perfect way to meet this friend of mine.

Kelly has always been a book-lover. She inspired me to read many books I might not have otherwise read such as The Little House in the Big Woods series. She also devoured The Baby Sitters Club books, Nancy Drew mysteries, and the Sweet Valley High saga. Now, we are both members of separate book clubs in separate cities, but we still share about our story adventures.

We used to glamourously dress up and create dance routines to old country songs together and I have to say that our best performances were to "Honky Tonk Man" and "1814," both by Johnny Horton. (I know what you're thinking, "Who's that?" Google him. He's great; really.) You'd have to bribe us pretty well to do an encore presentation, but I remember a particularly hilarious move to the line, "Gulf of Mexico!"

In fifth grade, Kelly and I volunteered for something three days a week during our lunch recess: library aid, office aid, and Kindergarten aid. When we weren't helping out, we were busy building our club: PTS, which stands for Pre-Teen Sensations. You can't say that we weren't creative and busy girls! We also loved Crayola markers and made lined paper rainbows by coloring each line a different saturated color. Kelly inspired me to try band and Girl Scouts, but I didn't last in either; Kelly was a lifer in both! We each played piano and she and I were on the same softball team for a time, too.

Throughout middle school and high school, Kelly and I gravitated to a different set of core friends, but we somehow always remained close. Even in college, we did our own thing, but we thankfully managed to keep in touch.


During and after college, we would get together every few months and we rediscovered our friendship and our uncanny ability to pick up where we left off, always finding lots of reasons to laugh and a never-ending line of conversation, despite the many miles that had previously separated us. I'm so blessed to have Kelly in my life!

She introduced me to afternoon tea at Tohono Chul Tea Room and I fell in love with this old English tradition!


Kelly sweetly asked me to be one of her bridesmaids in her wedding this past April of 2008, which was such a gift. I feel even closer to her now and am grateful for the experience to get to know her, her husband, her friends, and her family on a deeper level. She and her family are such hospitable people and they treat others with such openness and warmth - like part of their own family. They are all easy to love. Kelly has such a wonderful positive, cheerful, optimistic spirit, and she's found a wonderful husband in Jonathan. Kurt and I are so happy to call them lifelong and special friends.

My purse reminds me constantly of her and this gives me reason to grin.

Friends Forever,
Dawn

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thankful for... tart kitty feet among other things

"Kurt, I'm going to set the lemon meringue pie we're taking to your mom's house over here, on the blue table, and there's a paper towel over it," I informed him as I busily multi-tasked this Thanksgiving morning. I was worried that he might not see it and accidentally bump it or something.

"Okay," he replied. Check. It's off my mental to-do list. I have effectively communicated the status of the pie to my husband.

I took a shower and was brushing my teeth, etc. while our cat, Max, kept meowing at me and I couldn't do anything to make him stop. He had plenty of food and water, he has been well admired. I just couldn't figure it out.
A few minutes later, Kurt had figured it out. I hear him say, "Oh, sweetie..." in a long, drawn-out, oops-sort-of tone. Uh oh. I rush out to the living room - to the place where the pie waited to leave. The paper towel no longer hovered weightlessly over the pie. Instead, it was hard pressed, so to speak. There was a puncture in the pie with the once-dry paper towel leading the way to the bottom of the pie pan, lemon juice seeping its way up the paper's fibers. We realized the "hole" was exactly the size of our Max's paw pressing through the pie. It was merely a hurdle in his cruise over the furniture.


Kurt was in stitches he was laughing so hard. First I laughed, then I cried, and then I laughed again.

We can't really blame Max - he's used to walking over piles of papers, and he just didn't recognize this new obstacle as food for a human feast. The thought of him innocently stepping into something mushy when he expected a firm surface and then probably darting across the house (unnoticed by us) in shock is pretty funny. We think his meowing was perhaps an apology or the distinct disapproval and disdain of lemon after licking his paw to remove the tart dessert from in between his spread-out paw. How do cats pucker anyway?

Despite the little dent in part of my contribution to the meal, I am thankful for my cat. I am thankful for lemon meringue. I am thankful for my husband's laugh and sense of humor to help me see the joy in the little inconvenience.

There are so many things to be thankful for: the time spent with my mama visiting while making 16 pies, the gathering and fellowship of family, sharing and enjoying two Thanksgiving dinners in one day, old traditions and making changes to accommodate the times, my sister's goofy side which always makes me giddy, Nathan's first taste of stuffing and turkey and his many expressions, Ender hugging my leg and his little divided plate of Thanksgiving food, holding "short and sweet" baby Liam, recipe cards, "cutting in butter," the familiar bowl for candied yams, gluten-free options for Jen, pumpkin pie, cherry pie, chocolate chip pecan pie, hugs and kisses, being both a niece and an aunt, Gayle and I dressing the same without the "text," the beauty of feast preparation, aprons, utensils, music in the background, laughter, dish soap, coffee with pie, realizing how blessed I am, impromptu charades with my papa to guess a movie title, rain in the desert, the crisp, clean mountains after a hard rain, cool breezes floating through the warm kitchen from outside, multi-colored funky potholders, reminders of goodness, a full tummy, a full heart, and Love.













Gratefully,
Dawn

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Butterfly Bowl


My cousin Julena keeps the most delightful garden. I view her patch of earth as her special escape, her time-catcher, her constant project, her love, and her art. Seeing how her lush Eden has grown and what unique container she has found to house her newest plants cheers my spirit. I love how she'll offer me tea with a freshly snipped sprig of mint, or steamy soup with herbs from her own backyard.

For my birthday, she and her family, Jillian, Tim, and Joshua gave me smartly chosen, specific pieces of her garden clustered nicely in one glazed red pot; what she affectionately called my butterfly bowl.


Inspired by this gift, I watered it and watched it and willed it to grow. I will not kill my plants, I will not kill my plants. I can do this! The parsley and lavender seemed to thrive, but the once flourishing sweet alyssum (pictured below), seemed to be dying. I kept at it. It'll come back; it's okay.


Then one morning before work, I rushed out to water my small garden in my backyard, and I saw the reason that my sweet alyssum was disappearing. A plethora of little green caterpillars wriggled and munched all over the dwindling sweet alyssum. Previously so small, I wasn't even able to see them. I could only see the evidence that they existed because they were eating up my plant! I wasn't very productive that day at work because I was so distracted and eager to go back to my caterpillars!

Gradually, the number of caterpillars lessened because some were eaten by birds and wasps, and others couldn't survive since the butterfly bowl didn't have enough sweet alyssum for them all to share. These particular caterpillars weren't interested in any other plant in the bowl which there was plenty of - those picky eaters!

I bought more sweet alyssum for them. I planted it (quite poorly) in a different pot and placed it strategically right next to the butterfly bowl, but they didn't crawl over.

The chunkiest of all the caterpillars began to climb the tall, leafy plant in the center of the butterfly bowl. This critter innately knew it was time for a change. Half way up the stalk, she slowed down and found a spot to rest. Of all of those busy, hungry caterpillars, only one made it to this point. This little survivor shed her skin one final time to build her cocoon.



I unfortunately missed the exit of the single butterfly from the bowl, but I'm sure it was lovely. Thank you, family, for this beautiful gift!

This picture isn't the butterfly that matches this cocoon, but I had to include a photo of one!

"Happiness is a butterfly which, when pursued is always beyond our grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

~Nathaniel Hawthorne

My sweet alyssum and me are sitting quietly.

Happy,
Dawn

Monday, October 20, 2008

Being in Oregon

Grants Pass, Oregon
October 9-12, 2008

My "Gramma" and "Grampa" Dockery live in a lovely home nestled in a wood by a river in southern Oregon. Their living space is on the second story of this dark-wooded home.


When Gayle and I were little, all of our cousins went to Oregon and had a special get-away with our grandparents all to themselves, but we never went... until now. Gayle, Nathan and I took at trip to visit our Gramma and Grampa Dockery, Nathan's great-grandparents.


What an adventure we had - missing two of four flights, we spent a lot of time in the San Francisco airport! But I won't dwell on that mess - maybe in another blog.

It was Nathan's first airplane trip, and he was a great plane passenger! But, based off first-hand experience, that was only because he wasn't strapped in. No, on the airplane, his mother and I held him, played with him, fed him, rocked him, and entertained him. I have to say that he really doesn't like to be strapped in and that was evident with the screaming - blood-curdling screaming - in the car on the way to and from the Phoenix airport. But that aside, he was a most excellent little traveler, and aside from some of the traveling, our trip was awesome. We did always get to where we were headed safely, so we can't really complain about that either.


Our grandparents are travelers themselves – more frequent ones that Gayle or me – and they have spent a lot of time within the last 30 years traveling across the country in their fifth wheel to visit their friends and family, which happily, allowed us to see them more than we would have otherwise. But usually when they come to see us in Tucson, especially as Gayle and I have gotten older, we would get so busy and often consumed with work, school, family, and activities that we didn't really get to just really be with our grandparents.

At their home though, there weren't any distractions and we were able to just be. Being in Oregon was so nice. Every waking moment was with them. It was wonderful, and a pleasure to give my Gramma that dream come true, especially since we toted along her sweet great-grand baby!


Molly, my grandparents' puppy, the great tissue-stealer, all of four pounds of her, loved Nathan to pieces! She could not taste him enough! They were quite the pair.

During our stay, we made our traditional Mickey Mouse pancakes, took a scenic drive, had a picnic in the park near my Gramma's favorite autumn tree, played cards, went to Abby's – a favorite pizza joint, visited with our Great Aunt Norma and third cousin, Linda, watched 3 Christmas movies since my Gramma is the ultimate Christmas movie fan (The Holiday, The Christmas Card, and One Special Night), ate ice cream with Oreos, went for a hike, and caught up on Gramma's scrapbook. I had fun taking some pictures of the nature in the forest around their house, seeing deer, wild turkeys, and the fall colors just beginning. The colors are probably showing their true autumn glory about now rather than the days we were there. We were two weeks too early!







On our last evening there, after our movie marathon, I went to the guest room but Nathan and Gayle were already curled up together in slumber right in the center of the bed, so I bunked on the couch in the living room that last night there. Thankfully, it’s easy for me to sleep anywhere. And actually, it was one of the best things that happened because the next morning around 5:00am, Gramma came out to sit in her chair so she wouldn’t miss us when we woke up. I heard her but didn't want to say anything until she sat down so she wouldn't fall as she made her way through the room in the dark. Suddenly, I felt her feeling my head and shoulder for something. "Hi, Gramma," I said just as she swiped the blanket off me in the dark. We got a good laugh about that and then we visited for the last few hours we had together. Gayle heard us chatting and joined us while her baby still slept. Through the large picture windows, we could tell the sun was slowly creeping up because we could see the outline of tall pine trees and they felt like a canopy as they hugged the house. There was the most magical feeling of being high in a tree house.


Of course our time together scooted by too fast, but it was a special, memorable trip and I'm happy that we made it up to Oregon on our own to show our grandparents how important they are to us. I hope they know.

Thankful,
Dawn

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Surprise!


So, here we are just pulling up to my parents' house for what I thought was going to be a small, simple, quiet birthday dinner, but I was mistaken - very mistaken! It was anything but small, simple, or quiet. In fact, it was a fantastically large group of my dear family and friends decked out in dandy 1950's attire, with cool bee-boppin' hits jamming in the background. "Surprise!" they shout! Embarrassed, I feel... but very happy and grateful, too.

What a perfect way to start my new decade. You can't go wrong with hamburgers and hot dogs grillin', tater tots and french fries accompanying, 7-layer Jello, peach cobbler, and root beer floats topping off a full belly, friends conversing, ping-pong balls ping-ponging, and faces grinning.

Thank you all for caring for me and for festively adorning poodle skirts, jeans and white tee-shirts, Converse sneakers, plaid, and leather jackets, red lipstick, taped glasses, cigarette packs rolled up in sleeves, handkerchiefs and folded down socks, with and without ruffles. And a special thanks to Gayle and Mama for making me such a lovely and personable stars-and-moon skirt. I love it and you for your creation!

(I'm sorry that I don't have pictures of everyone and that there are so many of me!)

June and Gene, my parents-in-law

My Aunt Debbie and Uncle Larry

Jillian and Julena, my cousins

Friends, Donovan and Erin

Sister-in-law, Kathy

Sister-in-law, Kimmie

Friends/co-workers, Abby, Stephanie, and Sabrina

More friends/co-workers, Michele and Shannon

Friends, Lauren and Aaron

Friends, Scott and Tamara

Friends/co-worker, Matt and Megan

Friends/co-worker, Tim, Joey, and Diane, (missing baby Ellie)

Friends, Judy and David

My brother-in-law's parents, Glenda and Butch

Friends, Jack and Karen

Brother-in-law and nephew, Mike and Nathan

Papa and Mama

Gayle, my sweet sister


And surprised I was!

Many, many thanks,
Dawn